The other issue of Dr Qadir was that of his marriage. The girl with whom he wanted to marry was in India and after partition he didn’t know of her where about, and was in search of her. After he mentioned it to Qalander Baba Auliya, he received a letter from the girl. She was in Lahore. The letter had come to him after eighteen years of their separation. He took the letter to Qalander Baba Auliya. After seeing the letter, Qalander Baba Auliya said, “You go to Lahore, marry her there and go to Murree for your honeymoon, and return here.”When he reached Lahore on the given address, girl’s father, who had rejected the proposal earlier, received him with open arms and took him to the girl. She told him that she won’t marry him because she had TB. Dr Qadir, who was truly in love with her didn’t shrink away and married her. After their marriage they were living happily. Then, in the eighteenth month of their marriage she passed away. This is one of the mysteries of nature that he had to depart from his love only after eighteen months of togetherness for which he had waited for long eighteen years. This incident left him in such a state of shock that he lost interest in the world. The mental focusing and concentration which he had in his love for his mate converted into his love for his mentor; Qalander Baba Auliya. This brought him so lose to Qalander Baba Auliya, that duality between them abolished. When this tragedy took place Dr. Qadir was a well to do person. He was a very tasteful person. Had a wide wardrobe, over 150 ties were there to add to his grace but when he changed, after this tragedy, he distributed all these things to others and put on the ordinary kurta lungi. He has been blessed by Qalander Baba Auliya and now his, one of the distinctive member of Silsila-e-Azeemia.